{"id":7717,"date":"2020-08-20T20:20:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-21T01:20:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/?p=7717"},"modified":"2020-08-20T20:23:56","modified_gmt":"2020-08-21T01:23:56","slug":"praying-like-an-adult-how-to-start-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/praying-like-an-adult-how-to-start-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Praying Like an Adult. How to Start."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image wpimg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"409\" src=\"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/w_praying.jpg\" alt=\"Praying Like an Adult\" class=\"wp-image-6158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/w_praying.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/w_praying-300x175.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/w_praying-500x292.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/w_praying-624x365.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Not to sound overly dramatic, but I don\u2019t see how any\nhuman being can stay faithful to a life promise\n(marriage, priesthood, doctor, president, pope) without at\nsome time \u201csaying a prayer\u201d.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think of my priesthood. Oh, I could have stayed a priest\nwithout praying, I guess. The perks are pretty good (free\nroom and board, heated garage, pretty vestments). But\nwithout prayer, over time you become a shell of a priest,\njust going through the motions.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Husbands and wives, you know this too; anyone who tries to commit themselves to a project or a promise sooner or later runs out of gas. The promise you made way back now seems impossible or perhaps in your frustration it appears \u201cunimportant\u201d. \u201cWhy should I spend anymore sweat and tears on this darned thing that never seems to get any better?\u201d Been there? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>So why is prayer the answer to being \u201cout of gas\u201d? Because it reconnects us to the source of love and faithfulness . . . God. It takes us out of our empty, exhausted, defeated selves and lets us become children again. It lets us experience our neediness without embarrassment. Prayer calls out to God, who Himself has promised to watch over and help us in our times of trouble and emptiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cCome to me,\u201d Jesus said, \u201cAll you who are weary and heavy burdened, and I will give you rest.\u201d (<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/bible.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/11:28\" target=\"_blank\">Mt. 11:28<\/a>) \u201cPour out your hearts to the Lord.\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/bible.usccb.org\/bible\/psalms\/62\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Psalm 62<\/a>) \u201cYour Father in heaven knows your need, even before you ask.\u201d (<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/bible.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/6?8\" target=\"_blank\">Mt. 6:8<\/a>). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>So it\u2019s been a long time. I\u2019ve been away from my childhood religion. I feel like I\u2019m lost in a forest; how do I start praying like an adult? Do I rattle off a couple Our Fathers and Hail Mary\u2019s? Okay. That\u2019s a start. But there is so much more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s a couple thoughts that will help get you started.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"color: #cc6305;font-weight:bold;font-size:120%;\">Gratitude <\/span>is a wonderful way to get you in the right attitude for praying. No matter what your current mood may be there are some things in your life that \u201cyou just know\u201d. (For example, I know my mother loved me. I know my father\u2019s advice about hard work has proved itself time and again.) And I know in the same way there was a time that God answered my prayer <strong>OR <\/strong>at least I\u2019m aware He has blessed me with a gift I could never even imagined by myself. Even on a crummy day this thought lifts my spirit. Gratitude. It works every time. <\/li><li>Once you\u2019re feeling a little gratitude, it leads to a moment of <span style=\"color: #cc6305;font-weight:bold;font-size:120%;\">Trust. <\/span>\u201cYou\u2019ve helped me in the past Lord. So I turn to you now, please . . .\u201dTrust that He will catch you as He has in your past. <\/li><li>Finally there\u2019s the little matter of <span style=\"color: #cc6305;font-weight:bold;font-size:120%;\">Surrender. <\/span>Remember Jesus in the Garden? His whole world was collapsing. What was his prayer (after telling God his own wishes)? \u201cNot my will, but yours (God) be done.\u201d <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>All this points to prayer as a moment of personal speaking to God who \u201csees (and hears) you in secret\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/bible.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/6?6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Mt. 6:6<\/a>. It ought not rattle on with fancy or churchy words. (When the building is burning, \u201cFire!\u201d is all you have to say). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just speak from your heart, \u201cThank you Lord for the time\nwhen . . .\u201d \u201cDear God you know what happened, please\nhelp me . . .\u201d <strong>OR <\/strong>just . . . \u201cHelp Lord.\u201d\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Now just sit a minute. Don\u2019t do anything. Like you\u2019re on your porch listening to the evening breeze. Look out your window, whatever. <\/li><li>Lastly. Pay attention to the conversations and events of the week. They often contain God\u2019s surprising answer to our prayers.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>This brief conversation with God needs to happen everyday or as often as you can make it happen. If you do this for a while you will begin to experience in a wonderfully vague way(!) God\u2019s presence with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wpimg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/w_chip.jpg\" alt=\"Praying like a chipmunk\" class=\"wp-image-6905\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/w_chip.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/w_chip-300x171.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/w_chip-500x286.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/w_chip-624x357.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Enjoy this glorious month of August!<br>Fr. 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I think of my priesthood. Oh, I could have stayed a priest without praying, I guess. The perks are pretty good (free room [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_eb_attr":"","_price":"","_stock":"","_tribe_ticket_header":"","_tribe_default_ticket_provider":"","_tribe_ticket_capacity":"0","_ticket_start_date":"","_ticket_end_date":"","_tribe_ticket_show_description":"","_tribe_ticket_show_not_going":false,"_tribe_ticket_use_global_stock":"","_tribe_ticket_global_stock_level":"","_global_stock_mode":"","_global_stock_cap":"","_tribe_rsvp_for_event":"","_tribe_ticket_going_count":"","_tribe_ticket_not_going_count":"","_tribe_tickets_list":"[]","_tribe_ticket_has_attendee_info_fields":false,"_vp_format_video_url":"","_vp_image_focal_point":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-weekly-column"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7717"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7717\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7719,"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7717\/revisions\/7719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}