{"id":7804,"date":"2020-09-03T13:43:45","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T18:43:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/?p=7804"},"modified":"2020-09-03T16:03:10","modified_gmt":"2020-09-03T21:03:10","slug":"youre-a-liar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/youre-a-liar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYou\u2019re a Liar.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wpimg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/w_geico.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7806\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/w_geico.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/w_geico-300x154.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/w_geico-500x257.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.holytrinityweb.com\/weekly\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/w_geico-624x321.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Growing up there were a few words or phrases that, when spoken, were sure to cause raised voices or sometimes physical confrontation. Words like \u201ccheater\u201d or \u201ccoward\u201d or \u201ctraitor\u201d were sure to bring a vigorous response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But one that really started things down a bad road was to call someone a liar. The word carries such a condemnation that, spoken in anger, can completely define a person. Think of it. You\u2019re not \u201cmisinformed\u201d, or \u201cignorant\u201d or \u201cna\u00efve\u201d . . . no, you\u2019re a <strong>LIAR! <\/strong>It\u2019s like being slapped in the face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019re hearing this word used daily in the political and cultural debate going on in our country. So let\u2019s examine the nature and purpose of a lie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Catholic Catechism defines a lie as, \u201cspeaking a falsehood with the intention of deceiving.\u201d (<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ENG0015\/_P8K.HTM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2482<\/a>) <\/strong>\u201cTo speak or act against the truth <strong>IN ORDER TO LEAD IN TO ERROR <\/strong>someone who has a right to know the truth.\u201d It is a sin against justice and charity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>So what do we do when we\u2019re not sure what we\u2019re hearing is the truth? Cry liar, liar, pants on fire!? Maybe if you\u2019re 9. But a Christian might first ask the person for data (facts) to back up their statement. <strong>OR, <\/strong>viewing the facts, asking how they\u2019re being interpreted (persons can honestly come to different conclusions) <strong>OR <\/strong>respond with different facts and state perhaps a different conclusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is called honest discussion. It requires patience and listening to each other and moderating our tone. Unfortunately these days we don\u2019t seem to be mature enough to handle this kind of dialogue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The basic presumptions necessary for life together are being challenged. And what are those?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A basic presumption that when a person speaks they\u2019re telling the truth. (Truth telling is the foundation of our ability to live together).<\/li><li>A basic presumption that the person speaking is my brother\/sister and possesses the same goodness and rights to life that I have.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A belief, that if we bare with one another in honest<strong>, <\/strong>generous conversation, we can find solutions to the most vexing problems<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A belief that there is a \u201ccommon good\u201d. One based on truth and justice. Without these principles present things fall apart. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>So what if, after all the above, you discover someone is lying? The Gospel says we must not ignore it. (<a href=\"https:\/\/bible.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/18?15\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Matt. 18: 15-20<\/a>). Jesus says we are to go to our neighbor and \u201ctell him of his fault between you and him alone. . . in the hope of winning over your brother.\u201d If that fails, then one can invite others who can bear witness \u201cso that every <strong>FACT <\/strong>may be established\u201d and truth can finally speak. It\u2019s a big deal to call someone a liar. We owe it to each other that such speech comes only as a last resort. Kindness dictates this. But justice is based on truth and it too must find a voice if we are to live together. Lastly . . . what about the upcoming election? The word \u201cliar\u201d is spoken everyday by candidates for office. What are we to do with these accusations? Should we choose sides and be ready to hate anyone who differs with us?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Instead, why not:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Fact check. Read widely. Get the big picture of an issue (both sides); not what someone is yelling about.<\/li><li>Ask for clarification. Write your congressman or representative, ask them to speak to your issue.<\/li><li>Mistrust the person who uses yelling or name calling or rash judgement in trying to convince you. (These things are crutches for a lack of substance).<\/li><li>Believe that truth can be found. Sometimes we have to work to find it.<\/li><li>Pray for our country and community . . . that we will listen to the Spirit of God which brings truth, justice and mercy to our dealings with each other. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid. <br>Fr. 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Words like \u201ccheater\u201d or \u201ccoward\u201d or \u201ctraitor\u201d were sure to bring a vigorous response. But one that really started things down a bad road was to call someone a liar. 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